The Power of Intention and the Power of Letting Go

By Tirthankar Mukherjee, Eminent Advocate of the Supreme Court of India and the Calcutta High Court, National President of the Judicial Council and the Fourth Estate of India.

Life, especially for those committed to a purposeful path, can often feel like a solitary journey. There are times of quiet effort and moments of reflection when one wonders if their work truly makes a difference. However, in the stillness of this solitude lies something sacred – a space where invisible connections are formed and flourish, even if they remain unseen for now.

The energy and love you invest in your work are never isolated. Every action fueled by love, honesty, and truth sends out ripples into the world. These ripples extend beyond your immediate surroundings, touching lives in ways you might never fully comprehend. Like a signal broadcast into the universe, your genuine efforts connect with others, even those you may never meet. The “unknown friends” whose lives are positively affected by your work might never cross your path, but they feel the impact of your authenticity, and their lives are touched by it.

Take the example of Vincent van Gogh, a man who, during his lifetime, felt invisible and believed his work would never matter. Yet today, his art continues to inspire millions, forming a timeless connection with people across the world. The potential for a similar impact exists in your work. Your dedication to your art, the passion you pour into your purpose, and the sincerity behind your actions hold the power to connect with others in ways beyond your imagination.

This web of invisible connections is not reserved for the famous or well-known. It is open to anyone who lives sincerely according to their values and purpose. When you act with integrity, you create something real – a force that resonates with others, drawing them toward you. Your truth becomes a guiding light, attracting the right people, opportunities, and kindred spirits.

The beauty of this journey lies in its dual reward. While external validation may come, true fulfillment is found within. Every small act of dedication to your purpose nourishes your soul and deepens your connection with life itself. It strengthens your resilience, sharpens your perspective, and brings you closer to the person you are striving to become.

In today’s interconnected world, technology amplifies this process. With a single post, project, or act of kindness, the reach of your efforts can span continents, impacting lives in ways you might never have anticipated. The power of your work extends far beyond what is visible, linking you to others in deep, sometimes unexpected ways.

So, embrace solitude. Trust the invisible threads you are weaving as you continue your journey. The love and devotion you invest in your work radiates outward, reaching those who need it the most. Somewhere, people you’ve never met are feeling the energy of your truth and finding inspiration in your efforts.

Never doubt that your work is valuable. The authenticity you bring to the world has a magnetic force that attracts the right people, opportunities, and support into your life. Stay committed to your values and know that your efforts are building something greater than what you can currently see. Over time, these invisible connections will unfold, bringing moments of joy, synergy, and fulfillment into your life.

You are never alone. Every genuine step you take sends out ripples that travel far and wide. Your journey is important, and your efforts matter more than you may realize. Trust the process and understand that your actions are creating a network of connections, touching lives, and shaping a legacy you may never fully comprehend.

However, the journey is not without its challenges. There are individuals who will never accept responsibility for their actions, who would rather protect their pride than acknowledge their shortcomings. They may twist the truth, avoid accountability, or rewrite their story to justify themselves. In such cases, it may be tempting to demand understanding, to present your side, or even to apologize. But the reality is that you cannot force someone to recognize your worth or be honest about their actions.

The most important decision in these situations is to choose yourself. Letting go of individuals who refuse to take responsibility is not about giving up – it is about freeing yourself. By holding on to people who are not accountable, you are robbing yourself of the peace and self-respect that comes from honoring your own integrity. Holding on to such relationships drains your energy and keeps you stuck in a cycle of disappointment.

It is natural to want validation from others – to have your feelings acknowledged or the pain they caused you recognized. However, you cannot change someone who is unwilling to understand or change. Their refusal to accept responsibility speaks volumes about them, not about you. Their inability to change is not your burden to bear.

Letting go of those who refuse to be honest is not an act of bitterness or anger; rather, it is an act of self-love. It is a choice to focus on building a life that aligns with your values and self-worth, rather than seeking approval from those who disagree with you. You deserve relationships rooted in mutual respect, honesty, and care, not in a dynamic where you must beg for basic decency.

Choosing yourself means prioritizing your peace, growth, and happiness over anyone’s ego. It means recognizing that your worth is not diminished by refusing to accept another’s inability to change. Letting go is not a loss; it is a gain. It restores your strength, your self-esteem, and your ability to live a life free from unnecessary pain and dishonesty.

Sometimes, walking away is the best decision you can make, not to punish others, but to honor yourself. Choose you, because you are worth it.